Ubusanzwe uwo wihebeye akenera igihe cyo kumva amagambo y’urukundo yawe wowe ubwawe. Uwo mukunzi wawe cyangwa uwo mwashakanye, akenera ko mu ba inshuti mu buryo budasanzwe bityo muri iyi nkuru tukaba tugiye kurebera hamwe amagambo wamubwira mbere y’uko aryama na we ukaryama.
NGAYA AMAGAMBO WAKORESHA UKAYAMUBWIRA MBERE YO KURYAMA
1.Uri umugisha uyu munsi wa mbere amahirwe: Iri ni ijambo wamubwira ukaba umweretse ko kuba umunsi wawe wagenze neza ari we ubikesha. Mubwire ko ari umugisha kuri wowe umwereke ko umukunda cyane.
2.Iri joro rikubere ryiza: Benshi ntabwo baha agaciro iri jambo ariko nafata umusego akaryama wamubwiye ko ijoro rikwiriye kumubera ryiza, bizamufasha kugira inzozi nziza.
3.Imana ihire inzozi zawe: Muragize Imana umubwire ko inzozi ze zikwiriye kuragizwa uhoraho kandi ko ibyo arota bikwiriye kwezwa n’Imana. Imana niyo buhungiro bwa buri wese niba ufashe umwanya ukamuragiza Imana izahora akwibuka kandi agukunde.
4.Mu masaha y’ijoro nukanguka unyandikire: Ubu butumwa bushobora kuba bufatwa nk’ubworoshye ariko na we umva iryo jambo. Umuntu aramutse akangutse akaba ari wowe atekereza ubundi agafata telefone akakwandikira cyangwa akaguhamagara . Urumva waba umeze gute ? Bikwerekako uwo muntu ari muri wowe kandi ko aguha agaciro kenshi. Mubwire aya magambo mbere y’uko ajya kuryama.
5.Dore izuba rirarenze kandi ni wowe nishingikirizaho: Aya magambo amwereka ko ari we ukugize kandi ko kuba umufite ari cyo kintu cyiza ufite. Ntabwo ushobora kubona inzira adahari. Ibi bisobanuye ko agukunda cyane muri wowe.
Ubusanzwe urukundo rurizana kandi nurubona uzabimenya, uwo munsi uzisanga uvuga aya magambo ntawe ukubwirije kuko niko rukora iyo ari urwanyarwo. Mwereke ko umukunda cyane kandi ko udateze kumureka.
Isoko: Ibitekerezo by’umwanditsi
