umunsi .comUbwoko bw’abantu bitwa Abamasayi ni bumwe mu bwoko bw’abantu buba mu gihugu cya Kenya. Ndetse bivugwa ko bagira abakobwa beza cyane, icyakora ni ngombwa ko hari ibintu umenya ku bakobwa bo mu bwoko bw’abantu bitwa abamasayi mbere yo gukundana nabo cyangwa gutereta umukobwa waho.
Dore ibintu ukwiye kumenya mbere yo guteretana n’umukobwa w’umumasayi;
1.Iga byinshi ku muco wabo: Mbere yo kujya guteretana n’umukobwa w’umumasayi mbere manza wige ndetse umenye byinshi ku muco wabo. Ibyo bizagufasha kumenya umukobwa ugiye gukunda ndetse umenye ibye ndetse byagufasha kumwegukana.
2.Ubaha umuco we: Kimwe nk’abandi bantu Bose, ni ngombwa ko ukwiye kubaha umuco wundi rero mu gihe uri gutereta umukobwa waho ukwiye kubaha umuco wabo.
3.Iga imwe mu migenzo yabo: Ukwiye kugira ibyo wiga muri bimwe mu migenzo yabo nabyo bikwiye kuba ndetse byagufasha mu rugendo rw’urukundo mirimo.
4.Ambara imyenda itagezweho: Abamasayi ni bamwe mu bantu bacyambara imyenda ya cyera rero mu gihe uri gutereta umukobwa waho ambara imyenda itagezweho nkimwe yubu harimo deshire, poketi n’ibindi.
5.Iga kwihangana: Kwihangana bikwiye kukuranga kuko abakobwa aho bafata umwanzuro batinze, rero mu gihe uri gutereta umukobwa waho gerageza wihangane.
6.Mubwire ukuri: Abakobwa baho ndavuga mu bamasayi bakunda abasore bavugisha ukuri.
7.Ubaha umuryango we: Ikindi ukwiye kubaha umuryango we ndetse ukabaha nimico yabo nabyo ni ingenzi mu gihe uri gutereta umukobwa w’umumasayi.Ukwiye ukaba uri wamuntu ifasha cyangwa umuntu ufasha abandi.
8.Ubaha umwanya aguha: Ba wamuntu wigengaMwereke ko wifuza kumumenyaho byinshiMushimire ibyo agezeho.
Umwanditsi: Byukuri Dominique
Source: varsityscope.com
