Moussa JacksonAbagore benshi baba baziko abagabo badatekereza na gato ku byerekeye urushako, hari n’abandi bumvako umugabo ashaka umugore kugira ngo aze kuba umucarakara, ariko ibyo nabyo ntabwo ari ukuri. Abagabo benshi bifuza gushimisha abagore babo b’ejo hazaza. Baba bashaka gushinga urugo, gukunda, no gukundwa.
Umubano ntabwo woroha cyane mu gihe abashakanye bombi badashobora kumvikana. Ibyo byongera kandi imyumvire itari yo kuri buri wese.
Urugero, niba wemera neza ko abagabo bose bashaka ku bagore imibonano mpuzabitsina n’ibiryo byiza gusa, ntuzabona umugabo ukwiye. Ibi nibyo abagabo biteze ku bagore babo bahazaza.
1.kumvwa
Abagabo Babashaka ko umugore wabo wahazaza abashyigikira mu bihe bigoye no mu bihe byiza bakaba bari kumwe . ikindi kandi abagabo bifuza ko umugore wabo wahazaza yumva ingeso zabo nibyo bakunda.
2.kuba inyangamugayo
Abagore bakunda cyane ku babarira ibinyoma, ariko abagabo ntibashobora kubyihanganira muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Ntutekereze rero kumushuka no mu bintu bito bito , kuko bizatuma areka kukwizera mubindi byose.
3.Urugo rwiza
Abagabo bakunda iyo batashye bakumva mu rugo, ihumure no gutuza bibafasha ku ruhuka nyuma y’iminsi bahuze. Bashaka kuba munzu isukuye, n’ubwo bashobora kuba bafite gahunda nkeya ubwabo. Bakunda impumuro y’ibiryo bitetse mu rugo kandi bakunda kuryama mu buriri busukuye. Birumvikana ko umugore adakwiye gutunganya ibyo byose ubwe nk’umukozi, ariko agomba gukora inshingano ze nk’umugore.
4.Urukundo
Ntabwo ari abagore gusa bakunda urukundo. Abagabo kandi bifuza ko abagore babo b’ejo hazaza batibagirwa ibintu bitunguranye, message , hamwe no gusangira urukundo.
5.Umwanya bwite
Abagabo bose aho bava bakagera baknera umuntu ubaha umwanya cyane, niba adashaka gusohokana nawe, ntibisobanuye ko ahereza abandi umwanya, hari igihe abakeneye umwanya wo gutekereza kubibazo bye bwite.
