Nubwo gukurikirana urukundo rwimbitse no kwiyemeza n’umutima wawe wose mubucuti bishobora kuba isoko y’umunezero mwinshi no kunyurwa, ni ngombwa kwemeza ko ibikorwa nkibi bishobora no gutwara uburemere bwibibazo bishobora kuvuka ningaruka mbi.
Kujya mu rukundo rwimbitse cyangwa gushora imari mu mibanire n’uruhare rwuzuye rwamarangamutima bishobora guhishurira abantu ingaruka mbi zitandukanye zishimangira ingorane zigaragara mubibazo by’umutima.
Imwe mu mbogamizi zikomeye zo kwibira cyangwa kujya mu rukundo nimbaraga nyinshi ni ukwiyongera gukabije guhungabana mumarangamutima. Ubujyakuzimu bwumugereka burashobora kwerekana ingaruka zo gutenguha, guhemukirwa, cyangwa amakimbirane byanze bikunze bivuka mubucuti ubwo aribwo bwose. Iyi ntege nke zamarangamutima zishobora kuganisha kumurongo wo hejuru kandi muto, hamwe nubushobozi bwo guhungabanya ubuzima bwiza bwo mumutwe no kugira uruhare mukwiyongera kurwego rwo guhangayika.
Kamere ikubiyemo ibintu byose byurukundo ruvuye kumutima akenshi bisaba urwego runini rwo kwigomwa. Umuntu ku giti cye ashobora kwisanga abangamira ibyifuzo, inyungu ze, cyangwa indangagaciro zifatizo kugirango ahuze ibyifuzo n’ibyifuzo bya mugenzi we bari mu rukundo. Igihe kirenze, uku kwirengagiza gushobora kwangiza umuntu mu bitekerezo aho kenshi uba wumva wagenzura buri kamwe, biganisha ku kumva ufite inzika, gucika intege, no gutakaza buhoro buhoro ikizere bikaba byanagutera ikibazo cyo mu mutwe.
Uruhare rwamarangamutima rushobora kandi kongera ingaruka zumubano byanze bikunze. Haba binyuze mu gutandukana, gutakaza, cyangwa inzira karemano yubuzima, iseswa ryumubano wiyemeje cyane bishobora kuvamo intimba nini numubabaro mwinshi. Inzira yo gutandukanya ubuzima buvanze irushijeho kuba ingorabahizi, hamwe nubushobozi bwo gutinda inkovu zo mumitekerereze zigira ingaruka kumubano uzaza no kumererwa neza muri rusange.
Uku kwishingikiriza gushobora gukora imbaraga zitameze neza, bikabuza gukura kwawe no kwigenga. Gutinya kuba wenyine cyangwa gutakaza umubano bishobora kuganisha ku myifatire yo gutsimbarara, guteza imbere aho abakundana bombi bumva bafashwe kandi badashobora gukurikirana intego zabo.
Mu gihe urukundo rwimbitse no kwiyemeza n’umutima wawe wose mubucuti bishobora kuba byiza cyane, ni ngombwa kumenya ingaruka mbi zishobora kuvuka. Intege nke zamarangamutima, kwigomwa kugiti cyawe, ububabare bwo gutandukana, kwishingikiriza kumarangamutima, hamwe nigitutu cya societe nimwe mubibazo abantu bashobora guhura nabyo mugihe bahisemo gushora imari murukundo rwinshi. Kwemera no kugendera kuriyi mitego ishobora kuba ingenzi kugirango ukomeze umubano mwiza kandi urambye utuma umuntu akura kandi akuzuzwa.