Menya ubwoko 3 bw’urukundo n’akamaro kabwo

Ubwoko Butandukanye bw’Urukundo: Urukundo rw’Urungano, Urw’umuryango, n’Urw’inshuti

Urukundo ni ingingo y’ingenzi mu buzima bwacu bwa buri munsi. Buri muntu wese afite uburyo anyura mu rukundo, gusa nubwo abantu bose banyura mu rukundo ariko ntibanyura mu rukundo rw’ubwoko bwe.

Nubwo abantu bose batanyura mu bwoko bumwe bw’urukundo ariko 90% by’abatuye Isi banyura mu bwoko bwose uko ari butatu bw’urukundo. Dore ubwo bwoko butatu bw’urukundo.

1. Urukundo rw’Urungano (Romantic Love) : Cyangwa se urukundo rw’umugore n’umugabo. Urukundo rw’urungano ni urukundo rufitanye isano no gukunda umuntu mu buryo bwihariye, bukubiyemo amarangamutima akomeye, ubushake bwo kumarana igihe, n’icyizere gikomeye hagati y’abakundana. Uru rukundo rukubiyemo ibi byinshi ndetse ni narwo rukundo rubanza kubaho mbere yuko abantu bakora umuryango.

Uru kandi rukundo rushobora kuba urw’igihe gito cyangwa igihe kirekire, ariko intego nyamukuru ni ukubaka umubano ukomeye, wubakiye ku bwizerane, kubahana no gukundana.

2. Urukundo rw’Umuryango (Familial Love) : Urukundo rw’umuryango ni urukundo rwihariye hagati y’abagize umuryango. Rurangwa no kwitanga, gukundana no kwizerana. Uru rukundo ni ingenzi cyane kuko ari rwo shingiro ry’uburere n’iterambere ry’abana ndetse n’ubusabane hagati y’ababyeyi n’abana babo.

Urukundo rw’umuryango rurangwa no kwita ku muryango wose, gufashanya mu gihe cy’ibyishimo no mu bihe by’ingorane. Abagize umuryango barangwa no gufatana mu mugongo no gukemura ibibazo byabo mu bwumvikane n’ubufatanye. Ibi bituma umuryango uba isoko y’amahoro n’ituze ku bawugize.

3. Urukundo rw’Inshuti (Platonic Love) : Urukundo rw’inshuti ni urukundo ruba hagati y’abantu babiri cyangwa benshi batagirana umubano w’urungano cyangwa uw’umuryango. Ni urukundo rushimangira ubucuti, guhuza ibitekerezo, gufashanya no gushyigikirana mu buzima bwa buri munsi.

Uru rukundo rufite akamaro kenshi kuko rutuma umuntu yumva ko atari wenyine, rufasha mu gukemura ibibazo binyuranye by’ubuzima, kandi rutuma habaho kugirirana inama no gufashanya mu mikorere y’imihango ya buri munsi. Urukundo rw’inshuti rurangwa no kuganira, gusangira ibyishimo n’ububabare, n’ubufatanye mu bintu bitandukanye.

Urukundo rwose, haba urw’urungano, urw’umuryango cyangwa urw’inshuti, rugira uruhare runini mu buzima bwacu. Ni rwo rutuma twumva dufite agaciro, tugira amahoro, tukumva tunyuzwe mu buzima bwacu.